A mans job 💪 ❤. Its not his responsibility to break down your walls. Its not his responsibility to prove hes not like all the other men before him. Its not his responsibility to to understand and unwind you. Its not hos responsibility to love you just as you are and take on your shit. Its not his responsibilities to fix you. Its not his responsibility to mend your broken heart and put the pieces back back together again. You need to take care of that shit yourself.
His job is to prove he's trustworthy, safe and stable. His job is to show you how he reacts to stress and pressure. It is his job to prove he can "handle" a woman like you without yelling, fighting or running away. It's his job to hold space so it can allow your emotions to move through you. It is his job to hold you, allow you to lean on him. Gather strength fro his power. It is his job to be center, focused and confident. It is his job to be purposeful. Stand of in front of the world to claim what he is here to do.